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The ultimate question is, "Instead of merely 'picking up the pieces' and providing school wide counseling for those whose lives have just been shattered, what can and should be done to prevent the shootings from occurring in the first place?" We haven't yet found the
answer. However, it seems to me we have possibly been asking the
wrong questions. We have been targeting Why "boy" with a gun? Because the majority of violent incidents in the schools involve males. Therefore, a significant portion of this article asks the question of gender, "why 'boy' with a gun?" I've heard, "Don, you've become cynical." That may be true, or I might just hold a strong scientific skepticism, which is the backbone of science. I've also heard, "Don, you can't change the world." That may be true, but that doesn't mean the world doesn't need to be changed. And it certainly doesn't mean we should stop trying... especially as we enter the new revolution in the streets. |
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As described by Zimbardo (1979), "The most thorough investigation of the relationship between population density and social-emotional pathology in animals was conducted by John Calhoun (1962, 1976) at the National Institute of Mental Health. Colonies of wild or tame rats or mice were reared in artificial habitats where the effects of increasing population could be observed over several generations..." '...In one series of experiments,
a kind of housing project was created in which there were four interconnected
units
Despite the presence of ample physical resources, such as food and nest building materials, there were frequent vicious fights between the males as well as unprovoked attacks on females and infants. Some males were extremely aggressive, while others withdrew and became passive. Hypersexuality, homosexuality, and bisexuality increased tremendously. Social order broke down completely to the point that such normal activities as nest building and infant care were ignored by the females, cannibalism occurred, and no infant reached maturity, Deviations in endocrine functioning were common, especially among the animals at the bottom of the social hierarchy. In another version, living quarters were arranged as 'high-rise apartments' around an open area, again with ample food and nesting materials and freedom from germs, predators, and bad weather. Breakdown began when all the desirable physical spaces and social roles were filled. Dominant males started to break down, worn out from defending their territories. Females chased their young out of the nest early and became more aggressive and dominating. Young adults stopped struggling for territory of their own. With neither territory nor a useful role in the community life, they never had a chance to develop the interactive social behaviors needed for the survival of the group. Instead they took to a pathological 'life on the streets' in the large open central area. Even breeding ceased in the community. The last mouse died less than five years after the start of the study." By now you might be saying, "you can't blame everything on society." You're right. You can't blame everything on society, but you can blame a lot on society. The psychologist examines individual behavior within the context of the environment. Zimbardo's research reminds us that we simply cannot continue to ignore the environment and culture as we seek answers to this very complex question. "The
rat is never wrong."
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EARLY WARNING
SIGNS...
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These situations demand immediate
intervention by school authorities, law enforcement, child and family services,
mental health services, and/or parents, as appropriate.
Here's The Hard Part: This is all nothing of which school psychologists and most modern professional educators are not already aware. But, what if law enforcement "can't act until a law has already been broken?" What if appropriate mental health services aren't available? What if Child Protective Services considers such a referral inappropriate? What if the parents are unavailable? What if school authorities can only legally suspend for a few days? What if expulsion merely sends the student elsewhere, but doesn't solve the problem? |
It was the first week of school in my very first job as a school psychologist. The first grade teacher asked to consult with me regarding a student who was already experiencing some difficulties. She asked, "What should I do?" I replied, "Have you asked him how he feels about this?" She thought for a moment and replied, "I didn't think to do that -- I didn't know boys had feelings.""Given some of the existing perceptions and expectations, I'm sad to say that I'm not always shocked when I hear of the latest shooting." |
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The Who "Most
men lead lives of quiet desperation."
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Well, when we grew up and went to school,
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Mother, do you think they'll
drop the bomb?
Mother, should I run for
President?
Hush, my baby. Baby,
don't you cry.
Mother, do you think she's
good enough... for me?
Hush, my baby. Baby,
don't you cry.
Roger Waters |
You do not do, you do not
do
Daddy, I have had to kill
you.
And with a head in the freakish
Atlantic
In the German tongue, in
the Polish town
Says there are a dozen or
two.
It stuck in a barb wire snare.
SylviaPlath (1932-63)
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Last year I was conversing with some fellow professionals. One presented the view, "as scientific-practitioners, everything we do must be based on [sound, solid] research." I disagreed, stating that, "...as scientific-practitioners, we of course must effectively utilize the principles of science, but as professional educators (our primary role, in my opinion), we cannot forget or ignore the arts (including creativity, humanity, philosophy, insight, perceptions, phenomenology, affect, and the gestalt)." Education, after all, emerges from the school of arts and sciences. |
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Quite obviously, we can -- and must -- gain insight from , and utilize, the arts and humanities in our service delivery. Here are ten movies from which I've gained insight into the human psyche/experience. I recommend everyone who works with students see them -- I'm not saying you'll necessarily enjoy them -- I'm saying anyone who works with children should see them:
Which movies are on your list? |
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What
if...
...American youth are simply doing what our forefathers have directed them to do in the Declaration of Independence? |
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Survey data from the Centers for Disease Control and the Prevention Youth Risk Behavior Surveillance (1997), the Sherri Poll (1999), and the Mental Health Report of the Surgeon General (1999), among others give us a great deal of data about the occurrence of risk issues in the adolescent population. This information was forwarded by Richard Lieberman in 2000. Easy access to firearms...We have no idea how many youth are overly obsessed with violent music, violent video games, and violent movies but those products do sell. We have no idea on how many youth think about hurting others in school. We have no data on how many have ever made a plan to be violent. "Who
are the dangerous kids? The dangerous kids are the ones with the
weapons."
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www.keepschoolssafe.org
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"Teach your children well." Crosby, Stills, Nash, & Young Let's face it. American society and it's institutions have crumbled in many respects. It's cruel, but it's true. Fragmented. Imploded. Exploded. Old vs. young. Male vs. female. Black vs. white. Republican vs. Democrat. Conservative vs. Liberal. Religion vs. science. Tall vs. short. Rich vs. poor. Winners vs. losers. Good guys vs. bad guys. Us vs. them. The list seemingly goes on forever. Conflict everywhere. If you don't believe me, try getting into your car and calmly drive down the streets. Some individuals from fragments of any of the groups sometimes seem to choose violent methods to try to resolve their conflicts or eliminate the problem. So why should we assume our children will be any different? Social Learning Theory (1969, Bandura & Walters) would argue that our children are doing exactly what we are teaching them to do. |
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"Teach your parents well." Crosby, Stills, Nash, & Young Maybe the kids are trying to tell us something. Maybe the adults are so busy "teaching" the kids, the adults aren't listening to the kids? Maybe adults have forgotten that education is [theoretically] a "two-way" process? How often do we stop to learn from students? What are the kids teaching us? Maybe they're saying something like, "I've been talking for fifteen years and you haven't ever heard a word I've said, so take this! Maybe they're saying, "I'm tired of having no rights." Or, "Quit blaming me for all of your problems." Or, "Why do you spend all of your time punishing me?" Or, "Why is your Budweiser more important than me?" Or, "I love you, you're my hero -- why did you abandon me?" Maybe shooting adults or students (or themselves) is the only way they can get us to pay attention to them? We expect our children to keep learning from us (the so-called experts), but I know I've learned a lot more from students in my career than they've ever learned from me. Maybe it's time we can start learning from them? With our backs to the wall, maybe we no longer have a choice. |
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References: Sources for "Boy With A Gun" were many and included Zimbardo, www.321clipart.com, quotes from music and politics and movies (especially Roger Waters and Dick Gregory), and everything I've ever learned in life, and more. Much information from Richard Lieberman, LAUSD, who is one of the very best experts in this area. Notes: The model used for the photos was photographed with full, written parental consent and with the parent present. Nothing in this article should be considered as blame toward anyone for anything or an avoidance of individual responsibility for any individual act. As an existential phenomenologist with a basis in reality orientation, the author primarily and ultimately promotes and encourages [the subject's choice to accept] individual responsibility, an act which is ultimately equated with mental health. Yet, any individual's choices can only be based on his or her perceptions of reality. When children observe and take part in their [society], what are their perceptions? That is the question. What are their choices? That is the answer. This article was originally published March 13th, 2001 in the [paper version of the] KASP Gazette (Volume II, Issue 3, 2001). This article is dedicated
to our President, George W. Bush -- our Number One Boy With A Gun.
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